Wednesday, August 27, 2008

Being a healthier mom



For those of you who hadn't heard yet, I officially resigned from teaching this year to stay at home with Nadia. At first, I was apprehensive about making such a decision that seemingly left me with "nothing else to do but take care of the kid." After the busiest summer of my life (being in two weddings, a trip to Europe, 3 times to a friend's lake house, 1 time up to the parents' cabin, and a multitude of errands that would normally have been left un-done) I am encouraged to see just how full the life of a stay at home mom really is!


This summer has been the best summer of my life. I have had a list of things to do and yet all the time in the world. This is Nadia's first summer, and she loves the outdoors and the water. She could go for a stroller ride twice a day to the same park and never get bored. The hard part is finding time for all the other things that have to get done, because I, too, would enjoy being at the park all day instead of cleaning the house. In many ways, this was the best summer because it has been the best balance of them all. We have Nadia and all of her quirks to enjoy. We get to witness Nadia enjoying things we take for granted, and learn crawling and rolling and lobbing ourselves over things like she does. We have had the adventures of my big European Vacation and our mini-vacations with family and friends. I have gotten some things done at the house that I wanted to, like keeping the livingroom relatively clean and the dishes washed and the groceries bought on a regular basis. I worked harder to provide and make healthier baby food for Nadia, which is already growing out of. I've been reading books non-stop, from Shadow of the Dolls to currently Randy Pfausch's Last Lecture. I joined a book club! I started this blog! I even got the introduction to my Mommy Book written and the rest is yet to come!


This is the first time in 20 years where I didn't end summer with going back to school. Wow.


And this is the first summer where I truly feel like I accomplished things. I got a lot done, I tried new things, I traveled. I started taking Zumba class at the Princeton Club on Wednesday nights and now let that be Daddy Date Night. I am thankful that I have had such a fulfilling summer, and I am thankful to have had the support of my friend, Therese, in taking care of Nadia (and I) while I got so many things done, or happily left them undone.


The next thing to work on is myself. As I said, I started going to Zumba class regularly. I've started walking further than I thought I could walk. I unofficially started LA Weight Loss a week ago today. It's unofficial because I also got two cavities filled and my wisdom teeth pulled a week ago, so the anesthesia that was used is keeping my metabolism from officially starting the program. So far, my teeth are doing well, my energy's up, and I'm proud of the balanced meals I've concocted for the past several days. I am looking forward to Hip Hop class on Tuesday nights and the Mommy and Me Stroller Class on Saturday mornings starting in October, as well as continuing whatever crazy classes I take at the Princeton Club. A year from now I should be a size 8. Here's to the start of the rest of my life!

Tuesday, August 5, 2008

Like mother, like daughter?


Nadia figured out how to take her pants off before she took a nap today. I have no idea how she figured this out. The pants are 9 months, she's just at 10 months in age but still fits into them. In fact, the pants are a little long so they hang past her ankles. Therese put her down for a nap while I was getting work done. Then Therese and I decided to put in a movie and keep working on our projects. After an hour, I went to check on her and she was soundly sleeping. I thought, "She's in a really uncomfortable position but it's just so darn cute! I got Therese's attention to come check out how crazy she was positioned in the crib.

Therese: Why are your baby's pants off?
Me: What do you mean?
Therese: Did you take her pants off?
Me: No. Did you?
Therese: No. Ummm, I think your daughter took her pants off while she was sleeping.
Me: No way! I just wanted you to look at how crazy she looked! She actually did that?
Therese: Yes. What are you teaching your kid?!?

I'm not saying I taught Nadia how to strip. I haven't even put the idea in her head! She must have discovered some way to pull at the edges of her hem while her feet were in the air... Or maybe she laid on her back and she actually lifted her butt in the air and took them off! The truth is, once she got them off, they most likely became a toy and turned into a kite in the air.

I'm thinking she got them off to admire them. I know that sounds crazy, or way ahead of her age, but this girl likes clothes. When I fold laundry she sits right there with me and plays in the pile of clean clothes. When she finds a stack of clean clothes on the floor after a late night of folding she always takes each piece off the stack to see it. She loves different textures right now, especially furry or extra-soft clothing and books. I have seen her hold on to a pretty sock like it's a toy and admire the skirt of her dress while she's wearing it. I am hoping this is not a sign of a future addiction...